Month: February 2023

“These words rang like a tolling bell through Ruth’s head. It seemed to
her that her doom was certain. Leonard would be taken from her! She
had a firm conviction—not the less firm because she knew not on what it
was based—that a child, whether legitimate or not, belonged of legal
right to the father. And Leonard, of all children, was the prince and
monarch. Every man’s heart would long to call Leonard “Child!” She had
been too strongly taxed to have much power left her to reason coolly and
dispassionately, just then, even if she had been with any one who could
furnish her with information from which to draw correct conclusions.
The one thought haunted her night and day—”He will take my child away
from me!” In her dreams she saw Leonard borne away into some dim
land, to which she could not follow. Sometimes he sat in a swiftly moving carriage, at his father’s side, and smiled on her as he passed by,
as if going to promised pleasure. At another time he was struggling to
return to her; stretching out his little arms, and crying to her for the help
she could not give. How she got through the days, she did not know; her
body moved about and habitually acted, but her spirit was with her child.” (Chapter 24, Pg. 265)

Ruth is terrified that Leonard will be taken away from her, as she is perceived as a “fallen woman” and thus an unfit mother, therefore she has no right to care for her child, and horrible fantasies run rampant in her head.

Going back to the Custody of Infants act, although Ruth should had custody of her own child, however she does sincerely believe Leonard will be taken from her, and she isn’t completely wrong as in the period a single unwed mother would most likely be viewed as unfit, so how much power did men have in those decisions, even if the men would only be able to provide a lesser experience?

“It seemed to the poor child as if Mrs. Mason’s words were irrevocable,
and, that being so, she was shut out from every house. She saw how
much she had done that was deserving of blame, now when it was too
late to undo it. She knew with what severity and taunts Mrs. Mason had
often treated her for involuntary failings, of which she had been quite
unconscious; and now she had really done wrong, and shrank with terror
from the consequences. Her eyes were so blinded by the fast-falling
tears, she did not see (nor had she seen would she have been able to
interpret) the change in Mr. Bellingham’s countenance, as he stood
silently watching her. He was silent so long, that even in her sorrow she
began to wonder that he did not speak, and to wish to hear his soothing
words once more” (Ch. 4, Pg. 50)

Mrs. Mason stating that she’s no longer allowed in her house or near her at all for fear of being associated with Ruth plays directly into Ruth’s fears and shame of herself, and her vulnerability is profoundly highlighted here, along with Mr. Bellingham’s not fully caring about her situation by only partially listening.

How much does she actually like Mr. Bellingham as a person, versus how much does she more so like the idea of Mr. Bellingham as an entity, with the general caring and protection he provides. Does Mr. Bellingham actually care about her at all?

“to make Order that such Infant or Infants shall be delivered to and remain in the Custody of the Petitioner until such Age, subject to such Regulations as he shall deem convenient and just.”

This act allowed divorced women to actually get custody of their children, which was utterly unobtainable prior to this act, also making divorce not seem quite as much as some forbidden action and more like an action than can be actually be used and undertaken.

Although parliament was swayed by the decision and passed the act, how did more rigid traditional opponents of divorce like the church take it, and furthermore did they feel betrayed by parliment?

“At the first appearance of dawn, I rose, and brought the manuscript to the window, but
it was impossible to read it yet. I devoted half an hour to dressing, and then returned to
it again. Now, with a little difficulty, I could manage; and with intense and eager interest,
I devoured the remainder of its contents. When it was ended, and my transient regret at
its abrupt conclusion was over, I opened the window and put out my head to catch the
cooling breeze, and imbibe deep draughts of the pure morning air. A splendid morning
it was; the half-frozen dew lay thick on the grass, the swallows were twittering round
me, the rooks cawing, and cows lowing in the distance; and early frost and summer
sunshine mingled their sweetness in the air. But I did not think of that: a confusion of
countless thoughts and varied emotions crowded upon me while I gazed abstractedly
on the lovely face of nature. Soon, however, this chaos of thoughts and passions cleared
away, giving place to two distinct emotions: joy unspeakable that my adored Helen was
all I wished to think her—that through the noisome vapours of the world’s aspersions
and my own fancied convictions, her character shone bright, and clear, and stainless as
that sun I could not bear to look on; and shame and deep remorse for my own conduct.” (Pg. 246)

To sate his own fears and curiosity, Gilbert reads through Helen’s diary in chapter 45, and he finds newfound conviction and happiness that she’s everything he hoped she would and could be, possibly symbolized by him throwing his head out the window to breathe in the air of a new fresh day, and sets out to see her again, however he does feel a slight amount of guilt from looking through her diary and her secrets, one of the few personal things she actually has in this world, as well as only seeing it in the context of himself.

While Gilbert is reading her diary with good intention and a naïve nature akin to a child, he is clearly trying to determine if she is up to his standards, even if that means a complete breach of privacy. Thus, is Gilbert really still worthy of her if he’s utterly betrayed her trust by reading her diary and repeating the secrets within?